“It has a bowling alley!” my friend told me about an apartment community she and her husband were considering.  “That’s awesome,” I said. “You’ll never have to leave.” “It closes at 6,” she admitted. “Maybe I could go bowling some time before work.” “Well, how was the actual apartment?”  “Eh, it’s just an apartment,” she said. “Nothing special.” “Would you at least have an easy commute?” “It’s closer for my husband than where we are now…further for me. I guess I’ll see how much they’re charging in rent. If it’s a good deal maybe we’ll still look into it.” Does…